Original source: Carson Heady
This video from Carson Heady covered a lot of ground. 4 segments stood out as worth your time. Everything below links directly to the timestamp in the original video.
If your team engagement scores aren't improving, the problem may not be the survey — it may be what happens after you hit send.
Leaders Who Solicit Feedback But Ignore It Are Actively Damaging Their Teams
Running employee surveys without any intention of acting on the results is not a neutral exercise — it is corrosive. Heady argues that feedback mechanisms only earn their value when leaders close the loop, describing how he structured designated team spokespeople empowered to deliver unfiltered assessments, including criticism of his own habits. When told he was overwhelming his team with mid-day messages, he consolidated communications into a single end-of-day digest. The behavior changed because the feedback channel was real.
The reality is there is a direct correlation between a leader's willingness to be changed by feedback and the degree of trust that feedback system generates. Teams that watch surveys disappear into silence quickly learn that transparency is performative — and they act accordingly.
"Don't survey folks and ask for feedback and not listen to it whatsoever — those types of things can be very detrimental to a team."
How Toxic Cultures Are Built: Transparency Withdrawn, Expectations Inflated
Heady draws a precise picture of how workplace cultures turn corrosive: it rarely begins that way. He describes an organization that initially gave employees genuine visibility into margins and profitability targets, creating a sense of shared mission. Then, as pressure to grow revenue intensified, that transparency disappeared. Numbers were raised without explanation, and availability expectations became punishing — seven-day weeks, with mandatory responses to internal messages within 20 minutes or a phone call to follow. Respect, he argues, exits the equation the moment leaders stop treating people as partners in a shared outcome.
The pattern Heady identifies is common enough to constitute a structural warning: organizations that weaponize proximity and remove context don't just lose performance — they lose the people they need most.
"That's when the respect comes out of the equation."
Negative Comparisons Don't Motivate Teams — They Undermine Them
Calling out a team for sitting last on a performance report or measuring them against a rival group is not a management strategy — it is a pipeline killer. Heady contends that what actually drives execution is recognizing progress, including the progress embedded in a well-fought deal loss. Dissecting what a team did right before examining what fell short, he argues, extracts more actionable intelligence and preserves the psychological safety required for the next attempt. His governing principle is straightforward: be the manager you wished you had, and never ask the team to do anything you wouldn't do yourself — including stepping into escalations and absorbing the difficult conversation.
It comes down to this: isolation and ingratitude are performance taxes. Every moment a team member feels unseen or expendable is a moment their intentionality redirects away from the work.
"Be in it with your team — anything that you do to make them feel isolated or siloed or on their own or unappreciated, those are the things to avoid."
Transparency in Leadership Is Not Optional — It Is the Foundation of Functional Teams
Dysfunction, the argument runs, almost always traces back to a single source: the moment team members stop trusting what their manager says. Withholding difficult information does not protect people — it patronizes them. When leaders obscure bad news or allow reality to diverge quietly from what they have communicated, employees eventually piece together the gap and conclude they cannot be trusted with the truth. That conclusion, once formed, is nearly impossible to walk back. Delivering hard information honestly, by contrast, generates a durable credibility that outlasts any single quarter.
The accountability logic here is tight: leaders who manage expectations clearly — and explain the reasoning when those expectations shift — build the alignment that separates high-performing teams from dysfunctional ones.
"Even if you're giving people bad news, as long as you're being honest about it, they feel that they can trust you — and that will just pay dividends in the long run."
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