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Many of us struggle with finding "balance" between work, family, and personal life. Hear how one executive and mother of three reframes this challenge, opting for contentment and ruthless prioritization.
Executive Jenna Kilner Details Her System for Prioritizing Energy as a Mother of Three
Jenna Kilner, a VP of Marketing and mother of three, has developed a personal system for managing her energy that involves ruthless prioritization. She focuses on identifying the most critical tasks and allowing less important ones to "slip," a shift that became essential after having children. This approach allows her to dedicate time to activities that bring her happiness, such as volunteer work, exercise, family time, and hosting gatherings, even if it means her personal inbox goes unattended for long periods.
For Kilner, true happiness isn't about achieving a perfect "balance," which she considers an illusion, but rather about cultivating contentment and gratitude for daily moments. She highlights simple joys like walking her children to school when the weather permits, seeing people, and building community, recognizing that not everything is possible all the time, especially with three young children, and her system will likely evolve as her family grows.
"Balance is the, you know, never happens, but I try and manage what's the most important, what are the most important things that need to happen for that day and some things just stop being as important."
Jenna Kilner Advocates for Developing Thinking and Adaptability in Career Growth
Jenna Kilner argues that sustained career growth hinges on an individual's ability to think and adapt, rather than simply accumulating specific knowledge. She emphasizes that "knowledge expires faster than judgment," pointing to the rapid evolution of fields like marketing where tools and techniques change constantly, making fixed expertise quickly obsolete. Instead, true value comes from an individual's capacity to learn, apply sound judgment, and evolve continuously.
Kilner advises leaders to identify and challenge high-performing team members, pushing them to expand their skill sets into new, even tangential areas. She stresses that it is more efficient to enable strong, smart existing employees to adapt than to constantly hire new talent, advocating for job descriptions to be treated as flexible guides rather than rigid limitations to foster continuous development and adaptability within teams.
"It's faster to help someone who's strong and smart adapt than to hire someone new. So if you have those key players who are high performers, what are you waiting for? Don't limit what people can do."
Jenna Kilner Argues Leaders Must Stay Close to Work Details for Credibility and Empathy
Jenna Kilner asserts that effective leaders must remain deeply connected to the operational details of their work to maintain credibility and offer valid opinions, carefully distinguishing this approach from micromanagement. She believes this engagement is crucial for coaching with empathy and understanding, as leaders who are out of touch with the day-to-day realities of their teams cannot effectively guide or defend their output.
While acknowledging the necessity of delegation, Kilner argues that a leader's ability to "lean in" and understand the intricacies of their area, whether it is marketing, sales, or revenue, is essential for making informed recommendations and being accountable for results. This hands-on understanding fosters a collaborative environment where leaders and team members can co-work as partners, merging different styles for the best possible outcomes.
"I don't feel I can make recommendations, I can defend work, I can do my job unless I know what's happening in the business."
Jenna Kilner Reflects on Early Career Rush, Urges Slower Approach to Professional Growth
Reflecting on her 15-year career, Jenna Kilner identifies a past belief she held strongly: being in a constant rush to achieve professional milestones. She expresses a wish that early mentors had encouraged her to slow down and more fully appreciate the journey of career development, though she acknowledges her younger self might not have listened.
Kilner now advocates for a balanced approach, emphasizing the importance of a strong sense of urgency in work while also recognizing that a career is a long, winding path. She suggests that aspiring professionals should avoid complacency but also resist the urge to rush, instead allowing themselves to "sit in the moment" and appreciate each stage of growth.
"Looking back, I wished a few more people had said to me, 'Hey, like your career is long and you'll get there and all those things.'"
Jenna Kilner Emphasizes Humility as Crucial Leadership Trait Amidst Constant Change
Jenna Kilner asserts that humility is a critical leadership trait, especially in rapidly changing environments. She argues that while courage is necessary for leaders to act and make decisions, it must be tempered with the humility to acknowledge potential flaws, the limits of one's knowledge, and the inevitability of change. Confidence without this grounding humility, she warns, can lead to reckless and ultimately detrimental decisions within an organization.
Kilner notes that leaders often operate without the benefit of omniscient "futurists" and must make decisions based on imperfect information. Her philosophy for leadership involves encouraging teams to move fast while also exercising a level of humility that incorporates a healthy fear of failure, prompting necessary checks and balances. This ensures a balanced approach that drives progress without risking catastrophic setbacks, a balance she suggests may differ between founders and executives within established organizations.
"You need to have the courage to act, but the humility to know that you're probably wrong or that this is going to change. And those two combined let you make bets, move, and not be stalled."
Jenna Kilner: Build Confidence by Embracing Imperfect Knowledge and Trial-and-Error
Jenna Kilner advises that building confidence, both for leaders and team members, involves breaking down complex challenges and letting go of the need for complete knowledge before taking action. She emphasizes that one can never know everything before "jumping in," and a key aspect of professional growth, particularly for those aspiring to leadership, is becoming comfortable with uncertainty and not knowing the final outcome.
Kilner highlights the critical role of psychological safety within a team, where leaders foster an environment that encourages trial and error with new tools and approaches. She believes teams should proactively explore and push boundaries rather than waiting for explicit instructions, though caution is advised for high-risk business areas. She also notes the challenge of finding dedicated learning time, particularly for leaders, advocating for efficient, shorter bursts of learning and collaborative approaches like "pair programming" to accelerate skill acquisition.
"You can never know everything before jumping in. And so part of everyone's growth as they become more seasoned professionals is to let go of that need to have everything learned before they start."
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